Wow, it’s been almost a week since my last post. I’ve been crazy busy with doing up the house so the time has just gotten away from me. There are a couple of big updates so I’m splitting them up.
Uh oh part 1 and 2
Let’s start with the ‘Uh oh’ that lead on from seeing Woody. I found out that, the night before we got together he had been with another woman on the team. They’d been seeing each other for a couple of weeks and she was under the impression it was turning into a relationship. He’d made her keep it secret by saying if his ex found out it could be messy – which is why I had absolutely no idea. And he didn’t tell me despite knowing I was happy for him to see other people.
But the worst bit is that she had no idea they weren’t serious until I mentioned in conversation at the pub that I was sleeping with him (because I was concussed, not drunk, and running my mouth a bit). I felt terrible when I found out but thankfully she understands that I had no clue and she is just pissed off at him.
So basically Woody and I aren’t on great terms any more because he should not have done that to my friend, especially with me. Oh and the ex that would cause all the drama has found out through the grape vine about this anyway.
And I’ve been arguing with Louise over who should be apologising to who about some drunken things that were said on her birthday night out. I know now that we can’t see each other again as anything more than friends because her feelings are gonna get hurt because I prefer my relationships and sexual encounters with men to my sexual encounters with her. It sucks and now I’m regretting ever sleeping with her. I hate to have regrets, they serve no purpose other than to upset people.
[Something a little happier is coming up in part 3, I promise.]