Rik is the little brother of a friend on the team. Don’t worry, he’s only a couple of months younger than me! Long blonde dreads, a slight tattoo addiction, facial piercings ect. They contrast beautifully with his delicate features. I know that’s not to everyone’s taste, but as far as I’m concerned he’s bloody gorgeous.
We’ve been texting for a few days, after he added me on facebook, after we met at an afterparty. We joked about needing to try kissing because I wanted to know if his lip piercings would stab me in the face, haha. Today he met me after I finished at university. We are both pretty shy, surprisingly, so it was a bit tense at first. But I think it was more down to us both knowing what we wanted and just waiting for someone to make the first move, as opposed to not having anything to say.
So we chatted and joked in the sunshine – I think it was the warmest day of the year so far, it was beautiful – and gradually moved closer and closer when FINALLY, once we were back at his, I got the confidence to go in for the kill.
And oh, my, god, it was worth the anticipation! Yes I did get a little bit stabbed in the mouth, when we kissed quite aggressively, for want of a better word. But other than that it was awesome kissing. Turns out he’s awesome at other stuff too. Any worries I had about him being young and inexperienced were unfounded. He knew exactly how to work my body and with a combo of hand and mouth work (including strategic use of multiple tongue studs)… Well let’s just say I felt pretty satisfied.
We didn’t have sex, because for some reason I forgot to bring protection and he didn’t have any. It was a little disappointing because I couldn’t use my own set of skills to return the favour. He was good about it though, saying he was perfectly happy knowing he’d made me happy. That was pretty nice to hear from a guy. I’m gonna make sure I can return the favour to him next time though!
After I went home, he was texting me about why I didn’t want exclusive relationships, which is a topic I brought up early on so as not to lead him on. He seemed to accept my explanation and agreed to keep things casual and open. I guess I’ll have to somehow make sure that he stays fully aware of this. I guess if, when I know him a lot better, and if it feels really right, I can put forward the suggestion of being each other’s Primary. Just gotta see how we continue to get on and how things go with the others.
That’s all I have to update you on for now 🙂